Ive tried searching the forums but with no luck, can anyone give me a link to where i might be able to download a ps2 vcd player if this is possible as i have a massive collection of vcds but nothing to play them on but my stand alone player.

Look at the top of the boards, there is a sticky all the way up top that will give you all the info you will ever need.

I don't think theres a ps2 VCD player, only Divx

where can i get this divx to play ps2?

look at the top of the forum ..... there is link(s) in that thread....and tips on converting stuff....also try vcdhelp.com for a step by step guide to convert vcd to divx.....