i forgot, but what are the correct setting for a dvd blank with video files for burning with nero to get it to read on xbmp? it used to work and ir emember but now i forgot.

Just burn as a normal disk, XBMP can read standard ISO9660 disks. The Xbox prefers however that disks are burned in UDF format with (In Nero anyway) the Xbox Compatibilty box checked in the burn settings.

for cds i can just burn like a data cd but for dvd i tried both dvd data and udf but it wont read, but that is the same way i burn dvd that works on the xbox xbmp. maybe missing something.