what program do i need and also does it have to be on both xboxes and also where do i find it and how do i install in

you set up avalaunch on both xboxes

use the built in ftp server on both- for the fastest results- i think unleashx also has this feature

or get a program calld xboxftp is by far the best, thats if u dont whant to install a dash like avalaunch.

where can i get this program from

you should know better than to ask questions like that- all your gonna get is "the usual places" on here- maybe checking www.teamavalaunch.com may yield something

Our BILL should know better, but he has a tendency of doing things like this.