Wow I read your story I may be going througth the same thing so what i did was i unrared my .cdi file and used cdi2nero99 to make it a TAO File .nrg!
and burnt it at the slowest speed which is x16 for my HP burner. Thats the slowest it would go. so is this all I need to do?
Or do I need to learn to use Utopia? btw this is my first dreamcast ever owned..ahahh I owned everything else but this one